{"id":2466,"date":"2026-09-21T08:00:25","date_gmt":"2026-09-21T13:00:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/148\/?p=2466"},"modified":"2026-09-30T17:01:05","modified_gmt":"2026-09-30T22:01:05","slug":"caregiving-tip-of-the-week-9-21-26","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/148\/illinois\/melrosepark\/blog\/caregiving-tip-of-the-week-9-21-26\/","title":{"rendered":"Weekly Caregiving Tip: Telling the Truth Without Stealing Hope"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This weekly Caregiving Tip is for you, <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">to help you express your love for another human being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>We are all caregivers.<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">If you are a client, a <a href=\"https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/148\/illinois\/melrosepark\/about\/our-caregivers\/\">caregiver<\/a>, a caregiving spouse or family member, a medical provider, or anyone in the business of caring, we are your source for useful caregiving tips that bring connection to your caring work.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>What:<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">A son had to tell his father that the cancer had spread.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">He sat in the kitchen and tried to find the right words. He had been to four appointments. He had read every report. He knew.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">His father did not know yet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The son took a breath. He said: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cDad. The news from the doctor today was hard. Can we sit with it together?\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">His father nodded.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The son said what he had to say. He did not soften it. He did not rush it. He said the truth in small pieces, and he waited after each piece.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">When he was done, his father was quiet. Then his father said, \u201cThank you for telling me. I want to know everything.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">They sat at the kitchen table for a long time. They cried. Then they made tea.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2>So What:<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">We think telling the truth will crush the people we love. So we wrap it in soft words until they cannot find the truth inside.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That is not kindness. That is fog. And fog is a lonely place to stand.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Chris Voss, the FBI hostage negotiator who wrote Never Split the Difference, teaches a tool called tactical empathy. The idea is simple. You name what the other person might be feeling, before they have to say it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You start with phrases like: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cIt sounds like\u2026\u201d\u00a0 \u00a0 \u201cIt seems like this is a lot to take in.\u201d\u00a0 \u00a0 \u201cIt feels like you might be scared right now.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Voss calls this labeling. Labeling does something quiet but powerful. It helps the other person feel seen. And when people feel seen, they can hear hard news.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Hope is not the opposite of truth. Hope is what truth makes room for.<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<h2>Now What:\u00a0 Try this\u2026<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">This week, when you have hard news to share, try this small plan:<\/span><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><b> Set the room. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Sit down. Turn off the TV. Put down your phone.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Ask first. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cIs this a good time to talk about something hard?\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Label what they may feel. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cIt seems like this is going to be a lot.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Say the truth in small pieces. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Pause after each one.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><b> Sit with the silence. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Do not fill it. Let the truth find its place.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You are not stealing hope. You are giving them the chance to hold it for what it really is.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><b>FOR MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS:<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0 Many oncologists and palliative care teams use the SPIKES protocol when sharing serious news \u2014 Setting, Perception, Invitation, Knowledge, Emotions, Strategy. Developed at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mdanderson.org\/documents\/education-training\/project-echo\/10%2027%2016%20ECHO-PACA%20SPIKES.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">MD Anderson Cancer Center<\/a>, it pairs well with Voss&#8217;s labeling. Both ask the same first question: What does this person already know, and what are they ready to hear?<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<h2>Weekly Moment of Beauty:<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">A hospice chaplain once told me her favorite sentence.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She uses it when a family is afraid to tell the truth to their loved one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">She says, gently: <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cYour father has been alive for a long time. He has seen hard things. Trust him with this one too.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That, too, is a kind of love.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">With gratitude,<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b>Thomaie Hilaris<\/b><\/p>\n<p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Assisting Hands Home Care<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><b>P.S. \u2014 <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Every care plan starts with a conversation. <a href=\"https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/148\/illinois\/melrosepark\/contact-us\/\">Reach out this week<\/a> and let&#8217;s talk about what peace of mind could look like for your family.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This weekly Caregiving Tip is for you, to help you express your love for another human being. We are all caregivers. 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