I come from a tradition that values family as the cornerstone of a strong foundation. My journey into home care began with my father, who suffered dementia and multiple strokes. His last stroke in 2014 left him half paralyzed, and not long after, he fell and broke his hip, leaving him completely bedridden. At the time, we didn’t know home care agencies existed, so we took it upon ourselves to provide the care he needed.

My closest exposure to professional caregiving was during his stay at a rehab center. While I respected the work being done there, I knew it wasn’t the level of care I wanted for my father, and I was determined he wouldn’t remain there long. With the help of my brother, I became his main caregiver; taking him for walks, assisting with grooming, preparing meals, managing medications, and researching every side effect to ensure his safety; all while continuing to work full-time. I eventually brought him home. In many ways, I served as his caregiver, dietitian, and physical therapist.

Through this journey, I learned what it truly takes to care for an elderly loved one with dignity, honor, and respect. I also realized that the kind of care I provided my father is rare and not easily found elsewhere. When I was introduced to Assisting Hands Home Care, it immediately felt like home. Their mission aligns perfectly with my values, and I hold firmly to the principle: “Love for others what you love for yourself.”