Assisting the Greatest Generation
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Paul Napolitano has lived a very full active life, happily married to his wife of 66 years, serving his country and working with children throughout his career. That came
\nto a halt when the beloved 97-year-old great-grandfather to five, educator and World War II veteran was diagnosed with Parkinson\u2019s Disease and dementia. Caring for him
\nbecame a challenge for his family. His wife Mary cared for him but became physically unable as his needs increased with the progression of the diseases. Through the VA, the family was introduced to Assisting Hands\u00ae Home Care four years ago. \u201cDad served in the Navy in the South Pacific during World War II where he piloted a landing craft, ferrying troops to various beaches from his ship, the USS Beckham,\u201d says Debra Napolitano, his middle daughter. \u201cHe was still in the South Pacific when the war ended and he left the service to pursue his education.\u201d
\nPaul focused on learning and earned his degree at Spring Hill College, a small Jesuit college in Mobile, Ala., where he then taught for 11 years. While teaching at Spring Hill, he spent summers earning a Master\u2019s Degree in psychology from Temple University in Philadelphia and then headed up the guidance department at Lenape High School for more than 30 years before he retired.
\n\u201cOn top of that, many remember him as the tennis pro at the Trenton Country Club for more than 20 years, where he even played Bobby Riggs,\u201d says his daughter.\u00a0 After the Parkinson\u2019s diagnosis, the couples\u2019 lifestyle began to change with Paul requiring more care to meet his daily needs. As the disease progressed it left him unable to dress or bathe himself. It was at this point that Mary found that she was no longer able to care for her husband. Wanting to keep Paul and Mary in the home they shared for more than 46 years, the family began to explore their
\noptions. \u201cHis care became a big burden on my mom, so it was not difficult to get my parents to agree to outside help,\u201d says Deb Napolitano. \u201cWhen his disease progressed further, his mobility became an issue and a safety concern and he eventually developed Parkinson\u2019s related dementia. The assistance we receive is made possible because my dad is a veteran and the VA chose Assisting Hands\u00ae for us.\u201d Paulette, a caregiver from Assisting Hands\u00ae Home Care, works with the family four times a week to help bathe, dress, and feed Paul. Eventually, the family moved Paul
\nand his wife to an assisted living facility, and Paulette continues to care for Paul there. \u201cShe is a big help for our mom as well, giving her a break from the constant attention he requires because he is so dependent on her,\u201d says Deb Napolitano. \u201cIn addition to our dad\u2019s personal care, she looks for things to do to help around their assisted living apartment, such as laundry and light housekeeping. Paulette goes out of her way to assist \u2013 knowing our parents are shut-ins, she even occasionally picks up things for our parents when she\u2019s out shopping. \u201cWe are grateful to Paulette for the level of assistance she provides that is always with care and respect for our dad. Paulette is very sweet to him \u2013 in his current state of dementia, he can be very agitated, needy, paranoid, and sometimes combative. Paulette is very patient and sweet, and therefore, he gets along with her despite his dementia.\u201d\u00a0 \u2013 Deb Napolitano, daughter
\nPaul is one of more than 19 million Americans over the age of 85 and one of the remaining–and dwindling–members of the Greatest Generation who fought in WWII. With more than 56 million Baby Boomers reaching the age of 65 and older, members of the generations that follow have their hands full, often caught between balancing care for children and parents. By the end of the decade, 20 percent of the total population will be over 65. Approximately 70 percent of adults over the age of 65 will need some assistance of some kind at some point, according to research conducted by the Home Care Association of America and Global Coalition on Aging. Moreover, 40 percent of adults in this age group already need some sort of daily assistance.
\nTraditionally, caregiving was done by family members. More than 34.2 million Americans, mostly spouses, and children, serve as family caregivers, spending an average of 24.4 hours per week providing care. The majority of home care recipients are seniors with an average age of 69. Three-in-five care recipients (59%) have long-term physical conditions and a quarter (26%) have memory problems, according to the study. Many care recipients (37%) have more than one ongoing health problem. \u201cTo see him decline is so hard since he was always our rock,\u201d said Teri Banks, another one of the couple\u2019s children, who recalls her dad being a softy at heart despite his stern demeanor. \u201cI live out of state and knowing that he is being taken care of by someone he trusts and we trust makes the world of difference. Knowing how much it helps my mom also gives me peace of mind.\u201d\u2013 Teri Banks, daughter
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Assisting the Greatest Generation to be safe at home: Paul Napolitano has lived a very full active life, happily married to his wife of 66 years, serving his country and working with children throughout his career. That came to a halt when the beloved 97-year-old great-grandfather to five, educator and World War II veteran was diagnosed with Parkinson\u2019s Disease and…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":74,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2776","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"acf":[],"yoast_head":"\n