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\u00a0Many male caregivers are unaware of in-home care and other resources that can help.<\/strong><\/p>\n

With our growing senior population, along with cuts in senior support service budgets on the local, state and federal levels, it’s more important than ever for family and friends to reach out to those who are providing care for a loved one.<\/p>\n

In the previous article [link to it when live], we took a look at some of the challenges many male caregivers face, and offered some tips for men who are serving in this role.<\/p>\n

Friends and loved ones of a man who is serving as caregiver often wonder what they can do to help. Here are some suggestions\u2014and don’t be afraid to ask the caregiver himself what you can do.<\/p>\n

Encourage him to talk.<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0So often people inquire about the condition of the person receiving care\u2014but they forget to say “How are you doing?” to the caregiver himself. By being a good listener, you let him know that it’s OK to express his feelings. Showing that you care about him is such an important way to provide support.<\/p>\n

Ask for specific things you can do.<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0Are there errands you can run? Could you provide transportation? Visit regularly? Help out with household tasks? He may find it hard to ask for help\u2014so sit down with him and work out a list. Or make a specific offer: “Dad, why don’t you go play a round of golf tomorrow? I’ll bring a movie that Mom likes and some takeout from her favorite Italian place.” Get it on the calendar!<\/p>\n

Assist him in exploring outside sources of help.<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0Look at your local senior services offerings. Learn about geriatric care management. It may work best to discuss this in terms of problem solving: “Jeff, I know a great home care agency that is experienced with memory loss. Your mom would really benefit from that, and it would free you to focus on your work during the day.\u201d<\/p>\n

Encourage him to take time for himself.<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0He may have given up or cut back drastically on the activities he formerly enjoyed. Sometimes it helps to have someone “give us permission” to focus on our own needs! Reassure him that taking care of himself is an important part of taking care of his loved one, and remind him that his own emotional well-being is enriched by spending time doing things he enjoys. Too much togetherness can actually strain the caregiving relationship, and the care receiver would probably also enjoy some time apart, with an in-home caregiver, at a senior center or with a visiting friend.<\/p>\n

Express your appreciation and affirm his individuality.<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0Caregiving is a challenging task. Throw the spotlight on his efforts and acknowledge the important role he is serving. And don’t forget to talk about the other parts of his life, too. Caregivers can use a reminder of your respect for them as individuals with their own lives.<\/p>\n

Source: Assisting Hands Home Care in association with IlluminAge. Copyright \u00a9 IlluminAge, 2014.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

\u00a0 \u00a0Many male caregivers are unaware of in-home care and other resources that can help. With our growing senior population, along with cuts in senior support service budgets on the local, state and federal levels, it’s more important than ever for family and friends to reach out to those who are providing care for a loved one. 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