{"id":3308,"date":"2018-07-19T21:12:59","date_gmt":"2018-07-19T21:12:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/?page_id=3308"},"modified":"2020-01-15T17:32:47","modified_gmt":"2020-01-15T17:32:47","slug":"caregiver-for-aging-parent","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/caregiver-for-aging-parent\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Tell When It\u2019s Time to Call a Caregiver for Your Aging Parent"},"content":{"rendered":"<section class=\"l-section wpb_row height_medium\"><div class=\"l-section-h i-cf\"><div class=\"g-cols offset_small\"><div class=\"vc_col-sm-12 wpb_column vc_column_container\"><div class=\"vc_column-inner\"><div class=\"wpb_text_column \"><div class=\"wpb_wrapper\"><div id=\"attachment_3664\" style=\"width: 310px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-3664\" class=\"wp-image-3664 size-medium\" src=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/31\/2018\/09\/9-300x200.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/31\/2018\/09\/9-300x200.png 300w, https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/31\/2018\/09\/9-768x513.png 768w, https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/31\/2018\/09\/9-1024x684.png 1024w, https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/31\/2018\/09\/9-600x401.png 600w, https:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/31\/2018\/09\/9.jpg 1060w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-3664\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Talking with an aging relative about home care well in advance is well worth it<\/p><\/div>\n<p>You might suspect that your elderly parent needs help at home with activities of daily living but how do you know for sure? How do you bring up the question of home care without offending or irritating them? Just waiting for them to address the matter will simply not happen. Why?<\/p>\n<p>Because seniors want to be in control of their life for as long as possible and they don\u2019t want to be a burden to their children or loved ones\/spouses.<\/p>\n<p>So, how do you make them realize they need help with daily tasks? You can\u2019t. What usually happens is the aging senior will have some sort of a \u201cwake-up call\u201d be it an injury due to a fall or they may suffer a stroke.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t know what and when will happen, but you can keep your eyes open for telltale signs, so where do you start? You can start monitoring their physical and mental abilities while researching different <a href=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/services\/\">home care options<\/a> should your parents need it.<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s not that hard to tell if your aging parents need assistance \u2013 they usually have a hard time performing activities such as:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>eating<\/li>\n<li>bathing<\/li>\n<li>dressing and grooming<\/li>\n<li>walking<\/li>\n<li>toileting<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Also, watch for changes in their physical appearance \u2013 another telltale sign that they would need help at home sooner than later:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>sudden weight loss (not able to go grocery shopping, cooking and\/or eating)<\/li>\n<li>poor hygiene (unable to bath, dress and groom)<\/li>\n<li>blue marks on their body caused by falls (they have trouble moving around)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong>Warning Signs That Your Aging Parents Need Help as Soon as Possible<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>In addition to the changes discussed above there are some physical clues around your parents\u2019 home that can tell you of changes in their activities of daily living (ADL):<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>they have a hard time completing tasks they once enjoyed like maintaining the yard<\/li>\n<li>the interior of their house has not been maintained as it used to<\/li>\n<li>dents and scratched to their car are sign of impaired driving ability<\/li>\n<li>stains on the carpet that have been caused by dropping and\/or spilling things<\/li>\n<li>urine odor \u2013 sign of incontinence<\/li>\n<li>unpaid bills and unopened mail point to difficulty completing regular tasks<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Also, keep your eyes open for the following behavioral changes:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>lack of motivation<\/li>\n<li>lack of drive<\/li>\n<li>verbal &amp; physical abuse<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>If you notice some of the signs below know that your elderly parent or spouse might be developing dementia and consider your options (elderly care facilities, dementia care at home or home health aides):<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>memory lapses on a consistent basis<\/li>\n<li>no reasoning skills<\/li>\n<li>confusion<\/li>\n<li>difficulty recalling names of familiar people and places<\/li>\n<li>personality changes<\/li>\n<li>constant misplacing of things<\/li>\n<li>unable to complete a sentence<\/li>\n<li>rapid mood swings<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>By now you are certain that your parent needs assistance but how do you talk with them about the need of <a href=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/home-care-woodridge\/\">home care assistance<\/a>? Do it in a way that they themselves identify the problem and identify possible solutions.<\/p>\n<p>I know that it\u2019s easier said than done but believe me when I say that it is very, very important that your parents come to the realization that they need <a href=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/home-care-lisle\/\">home care<\/a> themselves.<\/p>\n<p>Depending on the circumstances they might need to sell their house and move into an assisted living facility or memory care community, but this decision needs to be their own, not yours or of other immediate family members.<\/p>\n<p>Or, they might need <a href=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/services\/light-housekeeping-cleaning\/\">light housekeeping<\/a> and cleaning services a few times a week for a couple hours. Whatever it is, these changes in their lifestyle are painful enough as they are and for that reason must be handled very carefully.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Related Articles:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/what-is-home-care\/\">What is Home Care \u2013 Pros and Cons of Different Types of Home Care<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/home-care-myths\/\">5 Home Care Myths Busted<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/choose-home-care-provider\">How to Choose a Provider of Home Care Services<\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/assistinghands.com\/8\/illinois\/chicagoland-naperville\/questions-to-ask-caregivers\">Hiring a Caregiver? Here\u2019s What to Ask<\/a><\/p><\/div> <\/div> <\/div><\/div><\/div><\/div><\/section>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"Talking with an aging relative about home care well in advance is well worth it You might suspect that your elderly parent needs help at home with activities of daily living but how do you know for sure? How do you bring up the question of home care without offending or irritating them? 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