Helpful Guide On Dealing With Resistance From The Elderly
Part 2
How To Encourage Cooperation In Order To Get Help
There are a couple of ways that you can help your loved one get on board with seeking help. Here are some methods that are worth trying:
Let Your Loved One Test The Waters.
No one wants to commit to a level of care they’re unsure about, especially if the concept is foreign or new. Let your loved one do a trial run of their care plan and see how they like it. Once they enjoy the advantages of getting help, they may feel more at ease about making permanent changes.
Use Positivity When Describing Care Services.
It’s important for your loved one to feel at ease about talking about respite care. When conversing about it, always keep a friendly tone and refer back to it as an activity he or she looks forward to. For example, a caregiver may get referred to as a friend or the care itself may get referenced as a club.
Ask For Their Help.
Consider taking a different approach to the conversation by asking your loved one for help. Let them know the strain it puts on you to know that they aren’t getting the assistance they need. Sometimes, compromise is the only way to get ahead.
Talk About The Funding.
Your loved one may refuse to get help simply because he or she is concerned about coverage costs. Have this conversation with them in the beginning and let them know how their care costs will get funded. This will ease any worries or concerns.
Know When To Just Stop.
It’s important to choose your battles wisely and not fight your loved ones about every aspect of their care. Try to understand where they’re coming from before attempting to put your foot down.
Note: Please understand that these tips are not necessarily appropriate for a loved one battling dementia.
What Happens If These Tips Don’t Work?
There are instances where a loved one may continue to resist, so make sure you employ the help of a professional. Elderly individuals may be more apt to listen to a doctor, lawyer, caregiver, nurse, or just about anyone other than family.
Most people face resistance from their loved ones when they broach the topic of getting caregiver assistance. This is normal, but once you explain all of the benefits they can enjoy, chances are you can get them on the same page.
If you and your loved one are ready for the next step, let us help! Our licensed, insured, and bonded caregivers can provide assistance with daily living, regardless of the challenges involved. Our goal is to provide compassionate and professional care every step of the way!
Call us or contact Assisting Hands Houston for any help you need with caregiving for your senior parents in Houston. Visit our blog for more exciting articles about caregiving in Houston. Click here for the first issue of this article.
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