When a parent or loved one begins to age or receives a critical health diagnosis, families are often thrown into “logistics mode”. We scramble to understand medical diagnoses, financial constraints, home safety modifications, and legal arrangements.

Yet, in the rush to solve practical problems, we often miss the human side of the transition: How do we preserve our relationships? How do we honor a lifetime of memories tied to physical possessions? And how do we start discussions about future care before an emergency forces our hand?

To help local families navigate these complex topics, Belmont Village Senior Living Oak Park is hosting a special three-part community speaker series: Difficult Conversations (In-Person and Online).

Session 1: What to Ask When There’s a Dementia Diagnosis

• Date & Time: Saturday, August 15 | 9:30–10:30 AM

• Speaker: Joyce Mahoney, CTRS, APRS (Belmont Village Senior Living)

When someone close to us receives a dementia diagnosis, standard reaction usually centers on the science, medical timeline, and physical preparations. This presentation focuses back on the person behind the diagnosis. Attendees will learn key questions families tend to forget, helping maintain deep, meaningful connections even as care needs shift.

Session 2: Do We Have to Get Rid of That?

• Date & Time: Saturday, August 29 | 9:30–10:30 AM

• Speaker: Gina Knight (Kastle Keepers)

A lifetime of living brings a lifetime of memories—and often a mountain of accumulated items. Deciding what to keep, gift, or let go of can be emotionally exhausting for both seniors and adult children. This interactive session breaks down the downsizing process into manageable steps so you can tackle sorting without feeling overwhelmed.

Session 3: How to Talk to Parents About Care: The 40/70 Rule

• Date & Time: Saturday, September 19 | 9:00–10:00 AM

• Speaker: Thomaie Hilaris (Assisting Hands Home Care)

Waiting until a sudden hospital visit or injury to discuss living arrangements often leads to rushed, stressful decisions. The “40/70 Rule” suggests that by the time adult children reach age 40 and parents reach age 70, open dialogue about long-term care, finances, safety, and personal preferences should already be underway. Learn how to initiate these sensitive discussions early and constructively.

Join Us

All events will take place at Belmont Village Senior Living, 1035 Madison Street, Oak Park, IL 60302 (with online participation options available).

Space is limited, so please reserve your spot in advance:

• Online Registration: RSVP here or scan the event QR code.

• Email Contact: Reach out directly to Kimberly LaBounty at [email protected].