Last week, we looked at a few of the prevalent — yet often mistaken — myths about senior drivers. In this article, we’re going to take a look at a couple more, and give you our take on it. The truth is, sometimes, as people’s faculties decline, they need to reduce the amount of driving they do, for their own safety. Every person’s situation is different, though, and each decision should me made with the utmost care and compassion.
That said, here are a couple of more myths about senior driving:
Myth #4: You will hurt your loved one’s feelings by having this tough conversation.
Fact: One of the most important conversations you’ll have with your loved one is also one of the hardest. Allowing them to drive when the suggestions above did not improve their driving can be dangerous to them and to others on the road. Share your concerns even if it is difficult to do so. They may become defensive. Try to express your concern with a solution in mind.
Make sure to express how much you care, by saying something such as, “We are worried that you could hurt yourself or others driving and we want to talk about ways to help you get to places you want to go safely.”
Suggest they talk to a doctor or occupational therapist to find a solution. If your loved one gives you permission, try to be a part of those conversations to show your support. If your loved one refuses to seek help or have an evaluation done, there are resources at your local DMV.
Myth #5: Seniors will have to stay at home if they are forced to give up driving.
Fact: There are a number of transportation resources for older adults. Help them learn about their options by researching public transportation. Systems have been designed that assist seniors with public transit and seniors can take courses to help them navigate the system and regain their independence. They may be able to travel to more places than they could have as a driver! Taxis and ride share services like Uber and Lift might be options once car expenses are no longer an issue. Finally, some home care services offer rides as part of their job duties. They will ensure your loved one gets everywhere they want to go safely.
Learn More
The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration offers information and resources for senior drivers and their families. And remember, we here at Assisting Hands Home Care in West Austin provide transportation services for our seniors, so please call us (512) 999-7379 today to see how we can help.
