Who Qualifies for Aid and Attendance?

To be eligible for Aid and Attendance, a veteran or surviving spouse must meet the following criteria:

• Military Service: The veteran must have served at least 90 days of active duty, with at least one day during a wartime period.

• Health Needs: You must require assistance with daily activities, be bedridden, live in a nursing home, or have limited eyesight.

• Income and Assets: There are financial eligibility requirements. As of 2025, the net worth limit (including income and assets) is around $155,356, though some exclusions apply.

• Medical Evidence: A doctor must confirm that assistance is needed for daily living.

How to Sign Up for Aid and Attendance

Applying can be complex, but here’s a step-by-step guide:

1. Gather Documents

   • DD-214 or other proof of military service

   • Medical documentation confirming the need for assistance

   • Financial statements and details about assets

   • Marriage certificate (if applying as a spouse)

2. Complete VA Form 21-2680
   This is the “Examination for Housebound Status or Permanent Need for Regular Aid and Attendance” form. A licensed physician must complete the medical portion.

3. Submit the Application
   Mail the completed forms and documents to the appropriate VA Pension Management Center (based on your state). You can also apply through an accredited VA representative or a local Veterans Service Organization (VSO).

4. Get Help if Needed
   Filing can be complicated. Consider working with a VSO, VA-accredited agent, or elder law attorney to ensure your application is accurate and complete.

How Long Does It Take?

VA processing times can vary but typically range from 3 to 6 months. If approved, benefits are retroactive to the application date.

Final Thoughts

Aid and Attendance can be a lifeline for families struggling with the cost of care. If you think you or a loved one might qualify, don’t wait. Start gathering documents and speak to an expert if needed. You’ve served the country — now let this benefit serve you.

Need Help Applying?
Our team at Assisting Hands is experienced with helping families navigate the Aid and Attendance process. Contact us today for free guidance and support.